For a slow Sunday
The Date I Owed Myself
Illustrated book · PDF
Twelve dates, one yellow notebook.
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For the ninety seconds before you hit send
A 7-page PDF for that exact minute. Three questions, one trick, the study behind it.
The cover
typed hey. deleted hey.
The scene
Late at night, phone in hand, the message half-typed.
Three questions
To ask before you hit send.
The draft trick
Where the message goes instead of “send,” and the study behind it: Ben Simon et al., 2020, Nature Human Behaviour: 18 people, one whole night without sleep, anxiety scores up 27% compared with a night they slept.
Type this instead
A short fill-in draft, addressed to you, to read at 9 a.m.
A last line from Ruby
And who wrote this card.
Two more things she made
For whenever you want them.
For the phone-in-hand version of you: the message is typed, his story is still up, and it's late enough that no one else is awake to talk you out of it.
For you — who knows exactly which hour your thumb hovers longest over “send.”
If you've never typed and deleted the same three letters, this isn't for you.
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